Staying and Leaving.

...bismillah...

One day, someone’s going to break your heart. (It is my naive hope that someone hasn't already.) It’s going to be brutal, it’s going to be messy and it’s going to be a beautiful catastrophe. Nothing is going to mold your beliefs about love more than the person who runs your heart to the ground. When it happens, girls, mourn. Cry your eyes out. Write poetry. Write prose. Buy a cute dress. Then find it in you to move the hell on.

When the heartbreak happens, remember that you’re not going to be the girl who stays in the hole. You’re going to feel all the emotions you need to feel, you’re going to create beautiful things out of your sadness, you’re going to call each other up at odd hours and remind each other that you are exceptionally gorgeous beings. After all that, you are going to reach and find the hidden super strength every person possesses and use it to climb out from where you've fallen.

You know why?

Because one day, someone’s going to love you. And I mean, really love you. And it’s going to be real and it’s going to be true and that person is going to like you even when you wear your rattiest t-shirt or don’t comb your hair or grow a few love handles. It’s going to be something that changes your life even more than heartbreak. And whether it exists in some far off horizon or happens in the very near future, it’s always something to press on for.

Just remember that it is not the end of the world, but the starting point of something new and something better. Girls, I know that it is hard to be in that situation. But, why does it happen?

So when people leave, I've learned the secret: let them. Because, most of the time, they have to.

Let them walk away and go places. Let them have adventures in the wild without you. Let them travel the world and explore life beyond a horizon that you exist in. And know, deep down, that heroes aren't qualified by their capacity to stay but by their decision to return.

Allah knows HIS plan and for sure it is the best for you! :) 

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